first of all this is a very good problem to have, you should be proud to be in this situation second of all you just need a better filter/bar/process for what you do talk about. here is one that is dead simple swyx.io/three-strikes statistical intuition is: you dont have a telling problem, you have a problem figuring out what is worth spending a limited tell budget on. so reference counter filter is 1) easy to keep track 2) good estimator of idea longevity/utility 3) actually reduces tell work for you long term
