Spending 3 weeks in NYSC camp can be deceitful for those in relationship. Then after camp, almost everyone would have "settled" for their company in the next one year. For some, it's one year of "exploration", away from their main partners for a while, to be able to try another
person. While in camp, I saw things. Some married women ditch their rings just to act single for 3 weeks. Some men & women already in committed relationships, ditched their commitments to have fun whilst it lasted. Quite a lot happens in camp. And it will take a lot of self
discipline not to fall for the "temptation". Some, genuinely want to find their true "love", but most just came there to "play". Why am I saying all these? If you have been able to build a relationship before going for service, don't spoil it because of short term "fun".
All of you are struggling & your little allowee you're getting is nothing if you ask me. After service year, another reality will set in. You'll now be faced with the real labor world. Or you may be thinking of furthering your studies abroad. Most of the "relationships" you'll
find during your service year will not last beyond your service year. I know a married woman who went to camp & refused to be redeployed to the state where her husband lived. When I asked her, she said he was "choking" her. He choked her from 200 level when he married her &
she didn't have much "freedom" because she was going to school from her matrimonial home. It was shocking to hear but it did happen. What she did all through her one year of service, I don't know. But truth is that she said she wanted "freedom". Nysc relationship is mostly
"scam" & I'm sure the people involved know this. It's those people that they left behind that I pity. If you're lucky, your real relationship will still be waiting for you. If you're not & you get carried away, you'll ruin something you should have held on to. If you don't
have any serious relationship before going to camp, reduce your hopes of finding one there as well. Very few will be fortunate to find one that will lead to marriage. The rest will just be cruise, knacks & empty promises & fake "love". Almost everyone you'll meet in camp left
someone dear behind. Some are married & some will get married immediately after service. They'll just use you to pass time. If you truly want to have a serious relationship after sch/service, make sure you're staying close or in the same state with whomever you're dating. End.